the scary place

Posted: September 15, 2011 at 5:26 pm

i stopped into the vets to talk about noelle…her amylase is elevated so pancreatitis is a possibility. no way to know if there is an underlying pancreatic cancer at the bottom of it all without an ultra sound or an xray.

anyway..i stopped in because the staff couldn’t get her to take her meds and noelle is not a dog you shove pills down her throat…so i was looking for some injectible antibiotics and pain meds (which they kindly gave me.)

grhhhh…when i was talking to the vet i started to get all freaking weepy, trying to keep my voice steady and not so successsfully trying to bury the tears ( so uncomfortably unprofessional!) i just do not do well with watching them seemingly irredeemingly suffering. i want to know what we are dealing with and i want a plan for her to feel better and i want drugs to give her so she at least feels temporarily better right now.

if she is not significantly better by morning i will drop her off at the vets for IV fluids and xrays. and even this worries me because if she is at the end of her road…i don’t want her final days or hours to be full of not only suffering but upsetting medical procedures. AND i certainly do not want to end her life if she does in fact have a simple pancreatitis that time and meds will heal.

i call this the scary place….where you have no idea what to do and you are afraid to act too quickly and jump to conclusions or wait too long and make them feel like crap for no reason because you are going to be letting them go.

all i know is that i want the exactly right freaking answer for noelle and i want it now…it kills me to see her so sick and not know what to do to help her.

3 Comments on "the scary place"

  • Bridget says

    you’re already doing all the right things. <3<3<3

  • erin says

    shes so beautiful…thinking of you noelle, hope floats right?

  • lynne says

    oh shit it really sucks and you are doing all the right things but why does it always have to hurt so much. we all want what is best for noelle, we all love her and hope for the best for her. nothing wrong with tears, without them there is no feelings and beyond a doubt we all know you love all your animals. noelle means no more and no less to you than your other animals, i am sure. she has been very loved by all and i am sure she knows that big hugs to you carol. can not be easy.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *